"Don't steal curry bought by other people!" Mother-in-law's "curry roux incident" Will the counselor who left his wife recover?

"Telephone Life Consultation" (Nippon Broadcasting, Monday-Friday 11:00-) Last week's highlights. This time, we picked up the Tamaki Myoyuu personality episode broadcast on September 16th (Wednesday).

Consultation that I want my wife who left home due to the mother-in-law problem to come back.

The client is a 50-year-old man. Wife 46 years old. Daughter 21 years old. Son 17 years old. I used to live with the inquirer's parents, but they have been living separately for a month.

``My wife left home three days ago due to a common mother-in-law problem.A month before that, my parents rented an empty house in the next town and moved there, so the current situation is I'm living with my daughter and son, and I'm asking for advice on what to do in the future..."

Originally four and a half years ago. She built a new house and started living with the client's parents.

"My wife in particular hates it. Since it's not a two-family house, we have one kitchen and one bath, so I made a time schedule table so that we wouldn't run into each other..."

By scheduling the use of the kitchen and bath, we manage to avoid seeing each other. I've been living like that for four years, but it seems that a decisive incident happened two months ago.

"My wife made curry, and put only the curry roux on the lid. After that, when my mother started using the kitchen to make dinner, I organized the pantry. For the first time, I put the curry roux in my (mother-in-law's) pantry."

If two people who don't want to see each other share the same kitchen, it's likely to happen. .

"My wife was furious about it and wrote a memo saying 'Don't steal the curry that people bought without permission' and stuck it in the pantry."

At that time, the client himself was also fighting with his wife and had not spoken to him for about two months, so he was furious when his mother told him about the memo.

"I won't forgive you for this matter"... or rather, after 24 years of married life, I've been frustrated in various ways, and I've had to say, "Get out!" Give it to me.”

It seems that the person who consulted sent a message on LINE, but it was addressed to a family LINE group that includes children. The feelings of children who are shown such exchanges...

My wife calmly replied, "Oh, I understand. Then I'm going to divorce. However, even if we separate, I can't find an apartment right away, so please wait for a while."

The client who panicked about this suggested to his parents, "It's better not to live together anymore." Her parents moved out a month ago, but her wife insisted, "I can't stay in this house, I'm leaving."

"I said, 'If you reflect on this memo, I'd like to start over.'"

Although the children also cried and persuaded him, ``I don't want you to divorce,'' in the end, his wife said, ``Please consider including the division of property,'' and left home three days ago.

"You yourself want to start over. There is a feeling that you want to work together. Would you like to discuss how you can come back?"

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